On Saturday, I hanged out in the bowling alley and was talking to someone about her point of view of how people should behave. She told me that it's all in your head, how you act, what are you thinking, and strive towards it. She told me that even those who had been bullied should not think about what other people say; don't dwell on it, think of something positive about yourself. YOU are the critic. Not some bimbo on the streets that called you names like slut, and whore. Sure, words can hurt, but they are not like the supreme judge that you depended on.You cannot dwell on what other people say, you are making yourself the target by looking all depressed and not tidying yourself up. You have the power to change other people's responsives. If somebody called you ugly, then wear nice clothes and take care of your hygine. If someone called you fat, then join a sport and meet new friends. Negative+Negative does not make a positive, so in that sence, do some positive enforcement in your life and it will have a positive outcome. Change your thoughts; they are the most powerful thing about your actions that you do. Do not mope on your past. A past doesn't matter as long as you've outcome your struggles. Everyone has been through some name-calling, and I mean everyone. But when you look at them today, you couldn't see it. They have been through being bullied and picked on, yet they are not scared for life. Don't mope on one single thing like it's the end of the world, because I can tell you- it will get a lot worse as you get older. So, forget about the drama, it's not a big deal, and fix it. And please- I'm not saying that you HAVE to do this and that in order for people to like you-rather, just join in an activity that you love to do and find some friends there. Then you can grow a lot by your personality and have a statement about what you've been through and how you persue it.

That's all for now~
Anna